Before meeting our new wifey at a group physical training class at our local gym, I was single for many years straight.
- There were various relationships in our early twenties that soured myself and others on being romantically involved with anyone.
In many ways this was fine because it forced myself and others to work on myself for a change, & I easily suppose I improved somewhat as a person because of that time being alone. Going to therapy for many months helped as well, as it forced myself and others to analyze the way I perceive our own thoughts & how I regulate our emotions. When I started going to our new gym, I was only interested in losing weight & getting healthier. I wanted to get back to weightlifting again & maybe run on a treadmill or use an elliptical. When the fitness center started offering yoga classes as well, I knew I made the right decision signing up for a gym membership. Then I started taking group physical training classes, starting with cross fit. It was in a group pilates class where I finally met our wifey. All of us both had t-shirts on that morning from the same band & instantly started bonding over music. The conversation lasted until every one of us were ready to leave the gym & head home, at which point every one of us exchanged PC numbers & then started talking back & forth for weeks. All of us went on many dates & now we’re official. I have to thank our local gym & their group physical training classes for meeting our new partner. It’s well worth the money I spend on our gym membership!